Have you ever noticed when someone starts crying?
When someone has a problem, does he/she cry immediately? Most people don't. They rather keep it inside, and be quieter than usual.
A couple times, I saw my friend so quiet, and I sensed there's something wrong. I could tell from her face. I asked her, "Are you alright?" That's when she started crying. Have you ever experienced this?
Based on my experience, that someone starts crying is usually not because of his/her problem, at least it's not the main reason. When someone asks him/her if he/she is OK is when the tears come. We are moved by the attention other people give us. Even though it's just a simple question, sometimes that's more than enough to show our form of attention towards someone else. That question is something that triggers whatever it is inside someone's heart.
When you have a problem, you might feel lonely. No one you can share your problem with, or you just don't want to. You tend to keep it inside. People like this have reason why they don't want to talk about their problem. They are simply uncomfortable or they just don't want to make other people worry about them. Thus, when you check their condition by asking one simple question, it's usually considered as an attention that shows that you actually care of them. :)
source of the picture above: sansdosage.blogspot.com.
When you have a problem, you might feel lonely. No one you can share your problem with, or you just don't want to. You tend to keep it inside. People like this have reason why they don't want to talk about their problem. They are simply uncomfortable or they just don't want to make other people worry about them. Thus, when you check their condition by asking one simple question, it's usually considered as an attention that shows that you actually care of them. :)
source of the picture above: sansdosage.blogspot.com.
1 comments:
True, not all people can be trusted to share our problem with. I'll definitely remind you to tell me that story.. :)
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