When you love someone, his happiness makes you happy. His smile boosts your mood. Even, it can make your day. No wonder you always do your best for his happiness.
When you love someone, you want that all of his dreams are achieved.
When you love someone, somehow you become more sensitive. Anything small and nice he does to you makes you ecstatic. The opposite usually applies. It's because he is your VIP. His actions and words are important to you.
When you love someone, you bypass his weaknesses. Yes, you might criticise him or give him some advice, but solely to make him a much better and outstanding person.
When you love someone, you want to look good in front of him all the time (it's hard but you keep trying), although it is likely that he wouldn't realise it. You know, men! Typically they don't pay attention to details. He might not realised that you've put a bit make up on or simply brush your hair or put a bit of perfume behind your ears, etc. Regardless you're still doing it. The idea of perhaps he notices it is more than enough to excite you. :)
When you love someone, you ask him things, simple stuff. Have you eaten? How's the traffic today? Do you want a cup of coffee? Are you OK? so on so forth. He might consider you talkative, just because you ask so many questions, but for you it's not a big deal. He might not realise that all the questions arise simply because you care (deeply care in fact) about him, his well-being, his feeling, his comfort.
When you love someone, anything bothers him or makes him sad also saddens you. You keep thinking of what you can do to comfort him or better help solving his problem. All this goes back to the idea of seeing his smile again.
When you love someone, something small can make you jealous (e.g. seeing him kiss his mom but he hasn't kissed you for days). You cannot say such things to him just because you don't want him to think that you're ridiculous.
When you love someone, you want him to be respected. You don't care if people respect you or not. As long as he is respected, it's enough for you.
Ultimately, when you love someone, you want to be together with him again in Jannatul Firdaus. Ameen YRA.
May Allah protect and shower him with abundant rahmah. May Allah also bless our marriage. Ameen. :) <3
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